Sister constantly criticizes sibling's efforts to market her business, complains when they stop helping her out: 'I don't wanna do that'

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Ally Perry • Writer and Editor
Sep 3, 2026 7:45 PM EDT

Sometimes you don't appreciate what you have until it's gone, or even when it comes back again.

Having a family member who is both good at something that can help you and willing to use their skills for your benefit is not the most common combination, and it is something to be treated with respect. Just because somebody is related to you doesn't mean that they are obliged to share such a gift, and it could well be something that people pay a lot of money for otherwise.

Of course, the thing about receiving familial help is that the drama of being related to one another often gets in the way. The exchange gets turned into some kind of weird power trip complete with all the complications that almost always come with family relationships. When you consider it this way, it isn't really any surprise that relatives who have a service to offer aren't always happy to do it for those who they should be closest to. It becomes more of a headache than it is worth, especially if they are doing it for free. There is a reason a lot of people do not want to work with their family members.

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  • A female business owner writes notes with a laptop beside her as she sits in her kitchen.
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  • A business owner recruited her sibling to help her with marketing for two years, but she never seemed satisfied with the help that they offered. She complained about every suggestion that they made, leading them to eventually stop helping her out.

    This led her sales to take a nosedive, so she tried to get them to help her again. Unfortunately, it did not seem like she had learned her lesson from the last time, despite the situation.

     

  • Sister's business failing after I stopped helping

    So I helped my sister marketing her business for about 2 years with immense resistance and friction. Pretty much everything I said was met with either
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  • - no I don't wanna do that - I prefer this was - Social media is better Etc I've been in the marketing field for about a decade
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  • I stopped managing her ads because of her stubborn behaviour and as expected her business plummeted to about $2000 a month Today she said I need your help So I logged in with her to help her maintain her Google campaign
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  • Her attitude hadn't changed.

    I told her Google Search is running on "Maximise clicks" and it should be "maximize conversions" Her reply? "It's performing well I don't wanna rouch it" Then we mentioned Meta
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  • I said "if your budget for Meta is $5/day I'd rather you put all your money on Google Search" Her reply? "Yes but I get some leads from Meta, last time I spent $20"
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  • I know she doesn't have Audiences nor tracking on Meta and I know for certain $5/day wil rake forever for her campaign to learn and optimise Yet here we are again with the whole "Yeah but" scenario I've struggled with for 2 years I just ended it with "ok you do what you see fit, take care"
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  • She needed to make up her mind.

    Costolette "If you don't want to accept my help stop asking me for it"
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  • Dipping_My_Toes "I'm tired of wasting my time on someone who won't take the advice they ask for. Handle it yourself and leave me out of it."
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  • The response was overdue.

    Scenarioing "I just ended it with "ok you do what you see fit, take care" ---What took you so long?
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  • WaterWurkz The whole horse to water thing, what can you do.
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  • There was no helping her.

    Character-Taro-5016 Good. Just be done with it. If she is in the mode of asking for help and then ignoring the advice of someone who has knowledge, then just be done with it.
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  • Fabulous-Gift-6925 I see and what fee are you charging to set these things up for her? Maybe she doesn't see the value of what you are doing because you aren't being paid.
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  • There was only so much to say.

    curiousblondwonders "Ive given you helpful advice and you still feel that you know more and are better than me. So why are you asking me for help when you dont take it to begin with? I tried helping and instead I got dismissed so good luck!"
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  • 2_Much3636 You told her what you recommended and she nixed every idea. Since she doesn't want to follow any of advise, just let her know that you can't help her and why. In writing.
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